Never has my husband ever been so keen to try something out. Photo: iStock Source:Whimn. But they were not prepared for what happened next.
It's normal for long-term partners to go through periods when they're having less frequent sex: Desire is cyclical, and that's nothing to be alarmed about. At the same time, getting creative about reigniting your sex life with your partner can be a hell of a lot of fun, and now couples are crediting a "day sex challenge" for doing just that after the challenge went viral on Reddit. Originally posted by an anonymous couple, the experiment is now being undertaken by people around the world, such as a married British couple who kept a diary of their experience with the challenge. The rules are as follows: You and your partner are supposed to try one new sexy dare every day for a month.
An online sex challenge to have sex every day for 30 days is gaining steam, but to many, it also sounds exhausting. Here is the list before we start. It is likely to be edited per the rules.
Thirty-day challenges have been floating around the internet for years, with many focused on helping people get tighter abs and stronger arms. Of course, the concept can be applied to anything, and one couple has opted to challenge themselves to 30 days of sex, which they detailed in a Reddit post. The concept is pretty simple: The couple plans to have sex at least once a day for 30 days.
Between work, friends and perhaps some little ones kickin' around, finding time to get it on can be a serious challenge. For your health. For your relationship.
BuzzFeed challenged three couples to the exciting and exhausting task of doing it every night for a month — for the purpose of reexamining their relationships and determining how much sex means to them of course. Each couple was allowed to set their own definition of sex some said penetration wasn't necessary as long as everyone camebut they all had to adhere to the "day straight" rule. It was harder than they all expected it would be. After night one, everyone was pretty pleased with themselves.
The concept is pretty simple: The couple plans to have sex at least once a day for 30 days. Every day has a set activity but each person can modify or replace the activity for two of the days before the challenge starts. Each partner also gets two veto days where they can skip the activity and just have sex.
We all want to have fulfilling, passionate relationships with our partners, but sometimes life can get in the way of that. Between work, kids, and errands, passion and excitement can fall by the wayside, along with communication, tenderness and romance. Get back on track by making your partner a priority and falling in love with your partner all over again. Instead, be proactive and in the moment.